26-FIND YOUR OWN WEAKNESSES
One hardy introspects himself and tries to find his win weaknesses rather he is more inclined to find fault with others. Once he begins introspection, accepts his weaknesses and attempts to get rid of his weakness he progresses reforms himself day by and lead toward becoming a real seeker.
Baba quoted Kabir
Bura jo dekhan main chala, Bura na miliye koy.
Jo ghar dekha apna, Mujhse Bura na koy.
Remember that the first step in spirituality is not to speak ill of others. All human beings have weaknesses and faults. Yet they are all God in their being. Until they become realized, they have their imperfections. Therefore, before trying to find faults in others and speaking ill of them, try to find your own weaknesses and correct those.
(Lord Meher, Vol. 6 & 7, p. 2506, Bhau Kalchuri)